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Showing posts with label business attire. Show all posts
Showing posts with label business attire. Show all posts

hello friends.

i've missed you all. it's been over a year since i've written a post and BOY OH BOY has a lot transpired. i come to you with new perspective, greater faith, and a new job.



let's play catch up:

last time we talked i was working as a marketing assistant for a small company. i worked there for little under a year and it was an excellent experience. i would advise anyone who is about to graduate or new in the post grad world to work for a small company. you get to do a lot which means you learn a lot. consequently, you learn and grow into a better person. from one small marketing role that started with sales calls, i got to write marketing collateral, social media posts, and produce a monthly newsletter. i also got vendor management experience as well as account management experience. it wasn't without bumps in the road, but it was extremely beneficial.

lesson one:  walk before you crawl. it makes walking a lot easier.

if i hadn't worked in this role, i wouldn't have been able to move into a bigger and better role feeding off my previous experience. we're all in a rush to make 6 figure salaries and be financially secure, but who are we kidding? we're still kids trying to figure this game called life out. success will come, if you're willing to humble yourself in learn.

i was definitely rushing. i got my first loan statement and said "Jesus, have mercy - how am i going to afford this?". instead of managing my money, i began looking for more money. i worked two second jobs to no avail and then i started seeking a new full-time position. i was exhausted, underpaid, and unhappy. i searched for three months and couldn't find a new role.

lesson two: discipline is everything. you could be rich and still broke if you're not willing to say no.

so i pushed although life (in my case) Jesus was telling me it's not time for you to switch jobs. to give myself a break from financial turmoil, i applied to graduate school. BEST DECISION EVER. it was something i did for all the wrong reasons, but worked in all the right ways. I always wanted my master's degree and i'm so glad i'm now pursuing it. back to my job situation - so after about 6 months of searching i found a position! joyous rapture right? NOT.

it was completely the wrong role for me. i found myself in a old, dirty warehouse with miserable people doing hardcore sales on the phone while other employees were playing basketball behind me (strange, i know). i cried driving there everyday.

lesson three: trust the timing of your life. AKA trust God.

 "And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose." - romans 8:28

in a situation so crazy that if i explained it you would think i made it up, i found myself without work...for seven months. it was the longest seven months of my life full of many challenges both personal and professional. i lost two dear friends to death, a relationship, and my peace of mind. i had no idea why this was happening. i was angry with God and myself.

however, we must realize that nothing is in vain, but rather everything has purpose. from these ashes of my former life, i was given another. we focus so much on what we lost rather than what we can gain. on monday, i start the job of my dreams. this position is key to my future as a project manager. i just finished my first year of graduate school with a 3.85 this semester ( i want a 4.0 grr).

lesson four: temporary. everything is temporary including pain.

there were moments when i thought my life was over, where i didn't see the light at the end of the tunnel or the purpose in the pain. we must recognize that almost all feelings and situations are temporary. this means they have an end. life is made of building blocks and tunnels. you go up based on experiences or you go through experiences to another experience. in all of this know - there is a destination.

"Your eyes saw my unformed body;
    all the days ordained for me were written in your book
    before one of them came to be." - psalm 139:16 


cheers. 

amb


Information connection will be posts linking you (my readers) to resources that maybe helpful to you. I saw this slideshow/article on my LinkedIn timeline today and I thought it was so relevant to my topics lately. This was created by the Managing Director of an international marketing communications firm. It was interesting and informative to say the least. He touched on several elements of the perfect interview and preparation that recent college graduates forget about. Some of these elements I've touched on in posts, but this slideshow drives the point home. I definitely suggest you review this resource and take it into consideration during your job search. I've embedded it for your viewing pleasure.





Congratulations Graduate! Eleven Reasons Why I Will Never Hire You. from Mark O'Toole

Please comment and share your thoughts :]

-amb


There are many opinions are what's appropriate for a job interview. Some say stick to the classics like a black pant suit. Others say it depends on the industry. I did a lot of research and I've came up with a few guidelines.


My Outfit for my interview today 

CLOTHING GUIDELINES 
1. Take a classic then add a piece that shows your personality
For me, it was this shirt with a neck tie. I love classic pieces, but I enjoy a little conservative funk. 
2. Watch your length! 
If wearing a shirt or dress, make sure you can sit appropriately and move freely. You don't want to sit down and your interviewer can see your unmentionables. This includes necklines. 
3. Footwear 
If you don't regularly wear sky high heels DO NOT start now. Wear flats or kittens heels. Something that you've wore before and you'll comfortable in. Close toe only please. Whip out the sandals another time. Wear stockings for finance and business industries. 
4. Be Comfortable. 
Never wear something that doesn't reflect you or that your not comfortable in. It will negatively effect how you present yourself during the interview. 
5. Layers are good. 
Having a jacket or cardigan that you can take off always is a plus. Never go sleeveless. It can be seem as too casual for the office. 
6. Jewelry 
Don't overdo it! Choose one bold statement necklace or ring. You don't want to distract the interviewer from your abilities, but you also want to create a memorable experience for them. I sometimes wear bright pink lipstick during my interviews. You can remove body jewelry like piercings if need be. I have a small nose stud that I keep in at all times. 
7. Dress like your interviewing, not like you already have the job 
The culture at each company is different. You may show up and everyone is wearing jeans, but you want to respect the interview process and dress business casual or higher. You don't have the job...yet. Dressing appropriately shows the company you're serious and professional. 

MAKEUP/ HAIR/NAILS GUIDELINES 
1. Keep it neutral. 
Invest in neutral makeup palettes like Naked from Urban Decay or golden/brown shades to create a sun kissed, natural look. The key is too look pretty, but not over done. A daytime smoky eye could also be appropriate. No heavy eyeliner or bright colors. I love a peach or coral blush for an interview because it creates that natural glow. 
2. Hair goes back and out of your face 
Keep your hair out of your eyes. It's distracting to both you and your interviewer if you're constantly fixing your hair while trying to talk. Stick to simple styles that say neat and classy. For example, a high bun or big, controlled curls. 
3. Nude nails 
Once again, you don't want to distract the interviewer with your bright, long, ghetto fabulous nails lol 
If you have acrylics, keep them short and either with French tips or a neutral polish. Luckily, nude colors are extremely popular right now so a nice shade shouldn't be hard to find. It doesn't have to be a brown based nude. Try a pink or purple pastel tone for something different! 
Some of my favorites:  

Wet n Wild MegaLast Polish in Undercover 

If you're impatient with nail polish try my favorite quick drying polishes: 
NYC In a New York Minute Polish in Brownstone or Fashion Safari 
Photo Credit: My Life My Thoughts By Emily 


& those are my tips for proper interview attire. 
When going on an interview remember to be confident! That's the best fashion accessory :) 
Look out for interview tips in a future post. 

I found some awesome articles along the way. Check em out! 
http://www.forbes.com/2009/07/30/interview-outfit-fashion-forbes-woman-style-budget.html
This resource goes through different industries and tell you what to wear: 
http://www.redbookmag.com/money-career/tips-advice/legal-job-interview-outfit

Happy Job Hunting Fashionistas :) 

-amb  

P.s. I'd love a male guest blogger to do a post about men's fashion and interviews. Email me if interested!