hello friends.
i've missed you all. it's been over a year since i've written a post and BOY OH BOY has a lot transpired. i come to you with new perspective, greater faith, and a new job.
let's play catch up:
last time we talked i was working as a marketing assistant for a small company. i worked there for little under a year and it was an excellent experience. i would advise anyone who is about to graduate or new in the post grad world to work for a small company. you get to do a lot which means you learn a lot. consequently, you learn and grow into a better person. from one small marketing role that started with sales calls, i got to write marketing collateral, social media posts, and produce a monthly newsletter. i also got vendor management experience as well as account management experience. it wasn't without bumps in the road, but it was extremely beneficial.
lesson one: walk before you crawl. it makes walking a lot easier.
if i hadn't worked in this role, i wouldn't have been able to move into a bigger and better role feeding off my previous experience. we're all in a rush to make 6 figure salaries and be financially secure, but who are we kidding? we're still kids trying to figure this game called life out. success will come, if you're willing to humble yourself in learn.
i was definitely rushing. i got my first loan statement and said "Jesus, have mercy - how am i going to afford this?". instead of managing my money, i began looking for more money. i worked two second jobs to no avail and then i started seeking a new full-time position. i was exhausted, underpaid, and unhappy. i searched for three months and couldn't find a new role.
lesson two: discipline is everything. you could be rich and still broke if you're not willing to say no.
so i pushed although life (in my case) Jesus was telling me it's not time for you to switch jobs. to give myself a break from financial turmoil, i applied to graduate school. BEST DECISION EVER. it was something i did for all the wrong reasons, but worked in all the right ways. I always wanted my master's degree and i'm so glad i'm now pursuing it. back to my job situation - so after about 6 months of searching i found a position! joyous rapture right? NOT.
it was completely the wrong role for me. i found myself in a old, dirty warehouse with miserable people doing hardcore sales on the phone while other employees were playing basketball behind me (strange, i know). i cried driving there everyday.
lesson three: trust the timing of your life. AKA trust God.
"And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose." - romans 8:28
in a situation so crazy that if i explained it you would think i made it up, i found myself without work...for seven months. it was the longest seven months of my life full of many challenges both personal and professional. i lost two dear friends to death, a relationship, and my peace of mind. i had no idea why this was happening. i was angry with God and myself.
however, we must realize that nothing is in vain, but rather everything has purpose. from these ashes of my former life, i was given another. we focus so much on what we lost rather than what we can gain. on monday, i start the job of my dreams. this position is key to my future as a project manager. i just finished my first year of graduate school with a 3.85 this semester ( i want a 4.0 grr).
lesson four: temporary. everything is temporary including pain.
there were moments when i thought my life was over, where i didn't see the light at the end of the tunnel or the purpose in the pain. we must recognize that almost all feelings and situations are temporary. this means they have an end. life is made of building blocks and tunnels. you go up based on experiences or you go through experiences to another experience. in all of this know - there is a destination.
"Your eyes saw my unformed body;
all the days ordained for me were written in your book
before one of them came to be." - psalm 139:16
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cheers.
amb
I have a confession to make: this job is not the position of my dreams.
I'm going to be the new food supervisor for a big hospital in my area supervising two staffs at two different locations, a total of 100 employees. It's a job in the food service industry... A place I never thought I'd find myself again. Here's a little background: almost from the beginning of my work experience I've worked in food service. I was a hostess for a fancy restaurant during high school, a food service worker a my college, and worked at a hotel catering weddings during the summer. I served room service and breakfast to guests at the hotel as well. And to place the icing on the cake, for the last two academic years I was a shift supervisor at my college's main dining facility.
Working in food isn't terrible. It's just a lot of long hours and a very broad job title...your title may say one thing, but you could be doing anything and everything. I wasn't looking for that unpredictability in my new big girl life. I was seeking something more scheduled, predictable to say the least. Something in an office, in a cubicle with air conditioning lol. Life is anything but predictable so, here I am.
I want to say to all of you that during this job search, you have to start thinking like an adult. By that I mean: making decisions that you can build on that may not necessarily be comfortable. This job was an excellent big girl job choice because although its not in marketing:
1. It has excellent benefits.
Coming from class to corporate, college graduates know very little about the importance of benefits. Realize that now, as an adult, you will need medical insurance, a 401k or another type of retirement plan, and other essentials. Your job has to provide these for you or you'll be paying a pretty penny out of pocket. Benefits can add thousands of dollars in value to your salary. Working at a hospital, I can get medical insurance and many other perks for little money. For example, not only is my medical insurance great I get discounts on my cell phone plan and movie tickets. Ask yourself: how much money am I saving or gaining on my salary from benefits? ( You can find this information on sites like salary.com or Monster's salary center)
2. It provides me with an admirable job skill and experience.
I'll be managing on a higher scale giving me management or supervisory experience. Even if I do not continue in food service after this, management experience is a great thing to have going into other fields. It shows responsibility, leadership, time management, interpersonal skills, and so much more. I'll get experience with scheduling, budgeting, and everything that goes into running a high volume facility. The position may seem limiting, but in actuality it opens me up to higher positions in other fields. Ask yourself: what skills am I obtaining in this position that other jobs look for?
3. It can be built upon.
Your first job is a building block. It's an opportunity to gain experience and build to the next step. You don't want to work somewhere or in something where there's no room for advancement. This management experience can be built upon. I can work in this position for a year or more than rise to a higher position or take this experience to another field. Eventually, I could manage an entire location, a whole region, or be a director. Ask yourself: what does this position build to? What can I use this experience to achieve?
Overall, this job is a great choice for the present. I'm not saying you should give up on your dreams or seek positions that are not your interest, however you should see the big picture of every job opportunity. Often, we see experienced professionals working in a different industry then their major and sometimes a different industry then their experience. Why is that? They got experience after leaving college, discovered their true interest, and built on that. I have a family member whose background Is in the biomedical industry, but a strategic management company was interested in them. Don't feel restricted to one industry or one goal. Diverse candidates are treasured like specialized candidates.
I wanted to share this confession with you because I know that many of you will have the same emotions that I currently have if you take a position that wasn't what you imagined. It's not the end of the world, but the beginning of a new one :) the job title doesn't define you, you define who you are and who you are to be.
-amb
